What A Boyfriend Should Do
themodernmariaclara:reghburdeos:bianca4realz:lexxaa:damnsedated:
• Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.
• When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go then kiss her.
• When she says she’s OK, talk with her.
• Never cheat on her because 10 yrs. later, she’ll remember you.
• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
• Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.
• Treat her like a person and not something to show off for.
• Tease her and let her tease you back. *bites lip*
• Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.
• Watch her favorite movie with her.
• TRUST HER WITH HER GUY FRIENDS
• Let her wear your clothes.
• When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her.
• Let her know she’s important.
• Kiss her in the pouring rain.
• When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
“Who’s ass am I kicking babe?”
I want a guy that’s going to make me laugh, not just every now and then, someone that can keep a smile on my face and somehow turn every situation into a funny one. I want a guy that’s not afraid to be totally stupid with me. Someone that’ll take me outside when it’s raining and just start kissing me. I want a guy that’s not afraid of what I wear. He won’t care if I wear my pajamas, or don’t put make up on every day of the year. Someone that no matter what will always think i’m beautiful, inside and out. A guy that respects my values and knows I won’t lower them for him, or anyone else. Someone that won’t call me at 3am in the morning drunk confessing his love. I want someone that will stay up until 4 in the morning with me cause I’m scared of the thunderstorm. Someone that will come to my house and surprise me with flowers just because its Monday. He’ll take me to concerts, and he’ll jump up and down with me and just act crazy. A guy that would drive 2 hours if it meant he could spend the day with me. When I go through a tough time all I have to do is call him and he’d come over just to make me feel better. If I can’t sleep, he’ll stay up on the phone with me until I fall asleep. He’ll listen to me, and he won’t judge me or my friends. He’ll know that there are certain times when I need my space, and i’ll know to let him have fun with the guys. A guy that knows i’m scared to death of birds, he’ll make fun of me for it, but if i ever see one on TV or in real life, he’ll know all he has to do is hold me. A guy that will watch scary movies with me even though i’ll be scared out of my mind. He’ll laugh at me for screaming and covering my eyes, and then he’ll hold my hand and kiss my forehead. I just want someone who will be there for me, someone to care about me. Someone to laugh with.
stop.
i need you to put down the pencil and listen to me for a second. i need you to pause your breath and tune to my frequency. because i’m throwing my heart on the airwaves and i need you to be alive to hear it. i need you to follow my words even when they’re stumbling, tripping, falling on their face.
this is just going to take a second. i promise.
i think you should know that when i woke up today i was tangled in morning breath and your whispers. i think you should know that i’m dreaming with swollen lips and bleeding cheeks because i keep biting down to stop myself from saying what’s on my mind. i think you should know my mouth is betraying me and when i brush it off, what i mean is, please, for the love of everything, know that i am terrified.
and, i think you should know, despite the fact that i am trembling with needs, i don’t want it. i don’t want to count down the seconds and drag out my day. i don’t want to have to constantly dislodge my heart from the back of my throat when you don’t even know that you jammed it there. i don’t want to write instructions on how to breathe on my walls because suddenly i’m constantly needing a reminder.
i don’t want this.
because it blindsided me, it plucked me off my track and threw me into another orbit. i was happy with where i was going and suddenly i’m holding my head between my hands with my tongue getting stuck in the why’s. i’m beating my dashboard because i didn’t ask for this. i’m incoherent and confused and blindfolded and lost in the middle of the city.
you should know i could pick better. if i wanted to trip like this, i’d find someone safe. i’d find someone with arms around my waist who would make sure i didn’t slam my jaw on the concrete. not this. i wouldn’t choose to fall without a net. i wouldn’t choose to choke up my heart and spit it out at your feet. but i didn’t choose, my tires slipped on the black ice and i’m careening out of control. i don’t have a choice, i’m pretending to clutch the wheel but no one knows better than me that i’m going to crash into the center divider.
i guess what i’m saying is: i need you.
i guess what you need to know is: it makes me mad as hell.
31 Ways To Make A Girl Smile
rakenrawl:
shuffledkisses:
1. Tell her she’s beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment … even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her
6. Don’t go hang out with your ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
7. If you’re talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9. Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER!!!
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If you’re listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it’s simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for them to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls because she’ll feel left out.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and you should be free to hang with your girl friend all the time
31. If you care about her…SHOW her!!!
(via anthonymichaelrojas)
Sunday, August 30, 2009
AMBLVRD. :D
kanina. pumutang sm. humanap ng gift for him. 10 years bago nakahanap. sumakit ang paa. sumakit ang ulo. bad hair day. napahiya. nabutas ang bulas:P ubos ang pera e. pero san WORTH IT naman. sept 20 pa bday nia. excited bumili? nah. para lang in case may nakakita di halatang para sa kanya yun. yun. nakabili rin. american boulevard. dang! 500 php. thank God. On sale. :p hahaha. pag nga naman. hay nako. :P wore it, took pictures :p SHHH:D
ou magpapakasaya na lang:D
kahapon. presentation ng mga nanalo at napili. ts palarong pinoy ek ek. nasa field kami nung umaga dhil nga sa games. pag tapos nung sang game, pumunta kame dun sa dulo ng field sa walng araw ung malapit sa chapel. saw them. barkada nila nakaup sa grass. same with us nasa likod lang nila kme… silang dalawa naktayo. nice. hahaha. gandang view. ganda talaga ang sarap umiyak. ang sarap iyakan yun nung mga panahon na yun. syempre di ko magawa. hindi pwede. grabe. ang sweet nila. sobra. ou. talagang meron ng something sa kanila ……..
ou magpapakasaya na lang, ipapakitang masaya:D itago na lang dito. :P ikaw nakakaalam nito mahal kong blog. sana walang makaalam nito. salamat. mahal ko sya.
hindi ba kasi pwedeng siya na lang? hindi pa pwedeng mahalin niya ko para maging masaya naman ako? ou masaya ko dun pero may kulang pa rin e. tae. bat ba hindi pwede siya? :(
bakit masakit? bwiset. ang hirap. tangina. ngaung di ako okay. ktext ko sila. di ako okay. nakatex ko xa. okay na ko. kahit papano. pero bakit pag sya lang? hindi? bakit? tae. mahal ko pa siya. mahal na mahal. bwiset na feelings to! ou hndi. hndi na ko papayag. di ko na kayang lokohin sarili ko. hahahahaha. sorry. sobrang sorry. ayako na. di ako papayag. pasensya. X(
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Sobrang nagselos ako. X( Maiiyak na nga ako eh. Pinipigilan ko lang. Nakita ko silang magkatabe. HAHAHAHAH! Damn funny. Ang sakit. Grabe. Di ko inakalang ganun mangyayari. X(
Sunday, August 23, 2009
T.L.A.
Bakit ganun? Di pwede. HINDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANO BA!!! TAE! SOBRA!!!! :( Tae. Amp. Nagseselos ako. X( PUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTSSSSSHOOOOOOOOOOORT! :( Ang dame. X( Kay .. T. L. A. :( ANO BA. :(( NAKAKAASA NA BUHAY EH!